same sex sexuality in poetry?

[ficosdarkness]

while same sex love is indeed the same as mixed sex love.
same sex but fucking (sorry for being crude) isn't the same as mixed sex butt-fucking) nor is the kissing. it may be to the same gender guys but it isn't to the hetero (usually) and vice versa. (i think) i can't perceive to think what a gay couple would thing seeing a hetero in and out love scene. and again i don't think it's a phobia, i think it simply about choice or preferences.

the same way we spit out a certain veg or don't eat a certain food, we do so because we don't like the taste of out (pardon the pun)
when we do spit out a carrot odd piece of apple or cheese etc, we don't then go running round like headless chickens telling everyone not to partake of the dish because it has carrots in it. we simply don't eat it.
the same way a vegetarian would ask what kind of oil something is cooked in. it's just a matter of choice. though they're are homo/hetero/phobes which is sad.
and to get it back on topic.

the more films that have bits of carrot or apple in them, the more poetry that has that flavour of cheese we don't like in it are contributing to showing us that good food can be cooked with all foods. i read poetry and sometimes enjoy an odd piece of carrot because of it.

Enjoy your carrot, Bill! And enjoy the occaisional "in your face" approach as well because like you said, "it IS all a matter of preference" in these such cases.