fathers

[dukealien]

oh, shit, I just remembered the title is fathers too

I definitely don't want to switch to the bother/father rhyme now.

sigh

You're allowed to change the title 

no, that would literally ruin the whole damn thing, it wouldn't really mean the same at all.  Part of the dichotomy is the narrator, now a father dealing with the trauma from his own father and recognizing it as a universal condition.

I can see that now (and you do a lovely job of explaining without explaining!)