that's the problem i see, you're not actually a know it all, i get the impression you're a "know a little" a bit like meself really though i do realise i need to learn a lot more. your examples don't hold too much water, i went to your scansion page and indeed it too holds little water.
you say push the envelope i call it doing something different. and you seem to be doing it differently but calling it the same thing....i know lets not use an iamb in a line of poetry but we can still call it a line of iambic. i can't remember where but you said formalists require at least 3 iambs for a line to be iambic. 3 out of five seems right it's a majority; were something else a majority such as spondee shouldn't it be called a line of spondeic poetry? it don't make sense what you're stating as some kind of fact. of course the envelope needs to be pushed. but don't try and claim your still working within the bounds of a given form.
you say push the envelope i call it doing something different. and you seem to be doing it differently but calling it the same thing....i know lets not use an iamb in a line of poetry but we can still call it a line of iambic. i can't remember where but you said formalists require at least 3 iambs for a line to be iambic. 3 out of five seems right it's a majority; were something else a majority such as spondee shouldn't it be called a line of spondeic poetry? it don't make sense what you're stating as some kind of fact. of course the envelope needs to be pushed. but don't try and claim your still working within the bounds of a given form.