04-19-2013, 02:26 PM
Some of us are needy freaks that can't appreciate what we've got. And so we drive our lovers to love all around, or love all around ourselves. 
Rarely, IMO, is one party solely at fault. Usually the relationship is failing for mutual lack and cannot provide the needs of everyone involved; yet no one wants to really say that out loud. In which case people should be more astute and less reluctant to see how its not working. Then they should fix the problems or split (unless there's a very, very good reason not too, for which both parties are willing to sacrifice).
So now that you've gone your own way, commit to being honest with yourself and with any future lovers. Keep an eye on the overall relationship, and judge whether or not that is healthy. If it seems to not be healthy, you can well expect someone to stray (and it may be you).
Rarely, IMO, is one party solely at fault. Usually the relationship is failing for mutual lack and cannot provide the needs of everyone involved; yet no one wants to really say that out loud. In which case people should be more astute and less reluctant to see how its not working. Then they should fix the problems or split (unless there's a very, very good reason not too, for which both parties are willing to sacrifice).
So now that you've gone your own way, commit to being honest with yourself and with any future lovers. Keep an eye on the overall relationship, and judge whether or not that is healthy. If it seems to not be healthy, you can well expect someone to stray (and it may be you).